You are Spirit

Even though you are as you understand it a reincarnational being, the you that you are right now is the only time you will ever be this you. This is the only one life you as you are now have to live.

Therefore, in the idea that we have been sharing with you for quite some time of your time about the willingness, the conviction and the expression of the unique individual that you have created yourself to be—the unique facet that you are of the multi-dimensional crystal of the infinite creation—more and more and more that you are willing to express what you know to be true for you, then more and more and more do you make as an individual, yes, as an individual, a difference in the entire structure of the society in which you exist.

For you will find that you are connected to everything and any change you make within yourself affords an opportunity for the entire community, the entire civilization if you wish to call it that in which you exist, to be able to then draw upon the change you have made.

If they prefer within the reality, the unique reality that they are themselves, to share that reality with you, then by you creating your unique version of what you know to be true for you, do you give them the opportunity to see in you yet one more way that there may be of expressing themselves and living the lives they have chosen to live.

Thus you add to the overall ability of the society you are in to have that many more options of choice, that many more recognitions of expansiveness.

Recognize as we have said in this way there is no one way to do anything. If there is only one way there would only be one person. Look around you. Each and every single one of you is one of the ways that the infinite creation has of manifesting itself. What you quote unquote “brought with you,” what you feel to be that within you that moves you in life, is your very simple and clear recognition of the path that is correct for you.

Your excitement, that which we have spoken of with you many times, what you call excitement, your knowingness, that which excites you, your knowingness, that which you know to be true for you or that in life which excites you, which moves you, that is your cognition of the path you chose to be. That’s what excitement is for. It is there to let you know that if you simply follow the idea that excites you, you will be congruent, if you will, synchronistically harmonious, if you will, with the original idea that you chose to express yourself as in this physiological life.

That is why you can follow that excitement and recognize that your life can proceed to unfold without effort, without strife, without struggle. We do not mean you will remove the idea of discovery. You will not remove the idea of growth. You will not remove the idea of challenge if you will, but you will alleviate the ideas of struggling, of suffering, of striving, of pain.

You do not need those. Those are tools that have served you well in the past. But you are now a new you. This is the transformational age upon your world when you are beginning to recognize that there are many more levels of consciousness to be in communication with than you previously conceived of as a society. And that cognition alone in and of itself means that therefore you can now transform your life, your individual life, and therefore the opportunity of all the lives upon your planet, you can transform them in ways that are indicative of your new awareness. For if you are aware that there are many levels of consciousness, many different beings within creation, then you are aware that everything can function as a whole, can function as a unit, everything can be shared.

Individual consciousnesses and whole groups of consciousness can be of service to other groups, be of service to individuals. All can be explored together within ecstasy, within love, within light, within life.

In this way, therefore, draw upon your certain knowledge that there are scapes, if you will, landscapes, spiritscapes, consciousness scapes of existence with which you are intimately intermingled, intimately melded and intimately blended. And with that assurance within yourself, allow yourself to expand in the representational way that is correct for you into the understanding that you are spirit. The idea of the so-called spirit. The idea of the so-called spiritual paths that many of you have been seeking as you say upon your planet is the simple cognition that you are spirit. Everything you do in a sense therefore is spiritual. The idea is now for you to decide whether you wish to exemplify and reflect and express yourself in a positive or a negative spirituality. But the idea is that now you can know you are spirit. You are one with all the different levels. You have conceived the idea that there are in fact levels out of the one homogeneousness of the infinite creation. It is your doing. It is your own illusion if you will. Not that that invalidates it for it has served you like anything has served you. It has brought you to where you are now. Therefore, do not deny and do not invalidate that of your past. Incorporate it knowing it has brought you to where you are. Treat it and think of it as a stepping stone. Love it for the experience that it brought you so that you could be understanding what you are understanding now. And then by loving all of those ideas that in their own timing may have seemed to be so painful, so negative. By loving them now, you will then create the type of past. For you do create your past from your present, not the other way around. You will then create the type of effect coming from your past that will support you in the present, will allow you to create whatever type of new present you desire once again without struggle, without strife, but only within joy of expression, within ecstasy in that way.

Sensitivity to electromagnetic shifts upon your planet

Some of these shifts may or may not be expressed seismically.

We will meditate later so that each one of you and collectively function as a valve through which the electromagnetic field of your world can be channeled.

Any energy that you perceive might have the potential of manifesting in your world in a negative way can then be rechanneled through you and manifested in a positive way upon your world.

For now you are recognizing that because you innately deserve happiness. You do not have to shake yourselves up or go through trials by fire in order to believe that you deserve happiness.

So if you are willing to take those steps and take them now, you can then release much of that energy that may be pent up in that way, expressing itself or potentially expressing itself in negative way, catastrophic ways, and transform that energy into another type of energy, an energy that can support and sustain and enliven and enrich the entire society in which you live. Use it creatively. You all follow me? Yeah.

In this way, therefore, the idea is that all we are sharing with you and all that any consciousness is sharing with you at this time is that you do have the power to create your lives as you desire them to be. The idea is to simply wake up and start dreaming and live those dreams. Live those desires with knowledge, with intention, with integrity, with knowingness, with faith, and with trust and unconditional love.

Questions

Headaches and Electromagnetic Sensitivity

Participant: I’ve been having horrendous headaches.

Bashar: Guess you are not alone. There are many individuals in your society at this time that are expressing that particular idea. We were speaking to one of them just last night of your time. Okay.

Participant: For how long? This has been going on that I’ve been aware of for several years.

Bashar: Nice. How long? How long has it been going on? Yes.

Participant: Several years. Can you remember the counting? When I first noticed it was back in 1983 or four and it was right at the front at the time that a friend of mine’s her husband died and I started noticing right after that every time I’d have a headache within days to several weeks something disastrous on the planet would happen. All right. And it was very painful.

Bashar: Nice. Again, this is some of the idea we have just spoken of. The increased sensitivity to the shiftings in the electromagnetic field upon your planet. The electromagnetic field is what mentality or mind is created from.

Any shiftings, any major shifts that take place within any mass mentality in catastrophic ways will now begin to be felt by various individuals that are becoming sensitive to those ideas. The two prominent ways that you will find that most individuals upon your planet will interpret this energy is through the heart or through the sinus temple area. You are simply sensitive to it in the upper area.

Your sinuses contain a high degree of magnetite and in this way it is very sensitive to any electromagnetic shift taking place upon your planet. Now the idea is that it does not have to continue in a painful way. But the pain may simply be coming from the fact that you are still harboring old ways of doing things. And now that you have actually expanded your sensitivity in a new way and are allowing more awareness of more energy to pass through you, you are allowing more energy to attempt to pass through you that is still constricted by the old beliefs. Thus you are attempting to force a great amount of energy through a very small channel and that is painful. The idea is to open up, relax in love, light and trust and faith. And may I ask you a very standard question at this point? Okay. Are you doing in life what excites you the most?

Participant: Sometimes. the thing that excites me the most is becoming more and more aware and more and more able and capable and seeing things for what they are.

Bashar: you are receiving nothing is being forced upon you but you are receiving guidance from the individual that you mentioned to some degree. The idea is that you made an agreement to receive guidance at the appropriate timing. But the belief systems that you bought into within this physiological reality are still making it such that the agreement you are fulfilling now to receive more energy is going through you in a constrictive way. All you need to do is begin to open up in your meditation.

Open up in the realization that you are having communication with other levels of consciousness and begin to interact in earnest in that way and to express yourself in earnest in that way by letting that energy flow through you rather than holding on to it because you don’t know what to do with it. Most of this is taking place in what you would call your sub or unconscious framework. But nonetheless, this does not mean it cannot become conscious if you are but willing to have the trust, the level of faith necessary beyond the shadow of a doubt to do in life what it is that excites you the most and to express yourself in life regardless of how you may think people will judge what you are doing. As long as you are functioning within your integrity and you know you are not expressing yourself at the cost of intentionally another individual or a group it does not matter what other individuals think of what you are doing. If you are expressing your integrity then what is true for you is true for you. You follow me? Yeah. Now in what ways have you perhaps perhaps perhaps imagined that you can give voice that you can vent that you can channel that you can express yourself in creative ways that perhaps you have been reluctant to do.

Participant: I don’t know other than the fact that I feel that I can help and be creative in many different ways. I know that I’m receiving all sorts of awareness on different levels that physically nice I cannot express but that I know I have been encountering for some time as a matter of fact all of this physiological life um I don’t know an answer to your um I don’t know an answer to your question at this point.

Bashar: When I asked you if you were doing in life what excited you the most and you said sometimes what are you doing when you are not doing what excites you the most likes to do.

Participant: There are no such things. Uh, basically emotional things. Basically, emotional things such as probably anger and and grief and all of that.

Bashar: Anger in and of itself does not have to be a negative expression. Anger is only alignment.

If you take it any farther than that, then it becomes what you usually refer to as the negative anger. The rage, the frustration, the guilt, the hate. But the idea of anger in its natural state is not a negative idea.

Anger in its natural state is simply alignment. You see a situation, you interact with the situation, you align relative to that situation that you see, you align with what you know to be true for you regarding that situation. You see your relative point of view. But the idea of anger being an unpleasant experience comes when you then invalidate something in the situation.

If you accept that you always encounter in life situations that are there to reflect to you different portions of yourself that you can then integrate so you can be a more expanded being and then be of service in the situation.

You will not judge it. You will not invalidate it. It will not cause frustration. It will not cause rage. It will not cause negative anger. Anger may still bring with it that adrenaline rush that comes with alignment with self-cognition. But it does not have to last any longer than approximately 15 of your seconds and that’s it. If it lasts any longer, you are invalidating something.

Grief in this way is generally once again simply a habitual ritual of supposition that things can be taken from you that you are separated from something at any given time which you never can be.

No matter in what way things may transform no matter what appearances may seem to be you are always always always in some way shape or form in connection to something that you have been in connection with at one point in your life.

Once a relationship is formed, it goes on forever. Now the differences that occur in that relationship as to how it is defined can change radically. But the relationship still exists and on some level you are still in communication with anyone, anything, any place, any idea, any situation you have formed a relationship with. So grief is only the supposition that you can lose something. And many times the paradox is is that the grief itself is the only thing that keeps you from recognizing you are still in touch.

Bashar: Do you have laughter when you have the pain in your head?

Participant: No.

Bashar: Why not?

Participant: I didn’t think it was something to laugh at. It hurt too much.

Bashar: But we are not saying to laugh at it in an invalidating way. It is the product of your belief systems and it is still something that represents a change going on, a transformation going on within you that can be looked at in a beneficial way. You are growing.

You will acclimate to the idea and it will not have to be painful for very long. But the idea is that if you know it is there for a positive reason, then why not accept it with joy? And again the paradox may be that as soon as you do accept it with joy your joy and your laughter may completely and utterly erase the sensation of pain. Okay. The idea is that to invalidate yourself is what continues the pain.

Oh no. I have pain. I’m doing something wrong. What am I not doing right? Oh no. Oh no. I am incapable. I am powerless. Oh no. I’m not in control. Oh no. Oh no. Oh no. All of these ideas are the continuence of the separation of a portion of yourself from the rest of all that you are. And therefore you actually create an inability for the totality of yourself to support and send nourishment to that particular portion of yourself. And it is that cutting off through invalidation that creates pain.

All pain, physical pain, mental pain, spiritual pain, emotional pain, all pain is the result of the separation of a portion of yourself from the rest of the all that you are that can nurture and support that portion as well.

It is simply old remnant habits of the way your society thinks of itself. Always judging itself, always getting, as you say, down upon itself for any particular experience. Always assuming, and here’s the big one, always assuming that experiences that at one time perhaps in your terms were negative, have to always be so. every time they seem to reappear. It is only that assumption that continues to reinforce the reappearance of those situations in what you would call a negative way. When you say I have chronic pain, well listen to what you are saying regardless of what the experience has been.

Well, you say well I say chronic because I have had it chronically in the past. All right, we understand that idea. But every moment is a new moment. You are always a new you and the present is not a result of the past. No matter how much that illusion holds strong for you in the physical reality. Linear time is an illusion. Every moment is the present moment. And it is its own unique now moment.

Any definition you give to any present now moment becomes utterly what that moment is regardless of what your life used to be. You follow me?

Participant: Yes. I’ve been getting that clearly from you for quite some time.

Bashar: in your relaxed state also this can be of some assistance and this can be for any one of you that wishes to partake of this idea at any time. You are an electromagnetic being as a physical being.

A headache is the product of the idea of tensions within the electromagnetic field within your brain. In that sense the idea therefore is to simply recognize yourself as an homogeneous electromagnetic field.

Envision yourself, if you will, as a sphere of blue energy, transparent blue energy. Imagine your body to be a part of that idea. Not separate from it, but merged, melded, immersed, and blended.

Simply allow yourself to balance out that energy and allow it to diffuse outward to a comfortable distance so it’ll be more expanded. and see within that homogeneous sphere of blue electromagnetic energy, no one portion standing out from any other portion in color or shape or any other way. Allow yourself to very gently allow the whole field to be a homogeneously blended transparent crystallin blue energy field. Let all the ideas that represent pain, the concentrated knots of focus diffuse into that field. That’s one way. Another way can be all right, you have the pain. Imagine that field again.

Imagine the pain. Go into your meditative state. Let yourself relax as best you can and allow yourself not in concentration but in relaxation to focus upon the area of pain. Encapsulate the area of pain in a small blue energy bubble. Focus on it. You are not isolating it. You are simply holding it. You are cupping it. You are caressing it.

But you have focused on it and you know where it is. You have located it. You have defined its space-time coordinates within you. Then gently, gently, gently, gently, a bit at a time, at whatever rate you are comfortable, move the bubble that contains the pain outside of your body into your electromagnetic auric field. Let the sensation be one that simply becomes a type of vibration rather than the sensation you would normally attribute to the idea you call pain. Let it diffuse. Let it go through the membrane of your auric field and pop on the outside. Let the pain that was inside the bubble sprinkle back on the surface of the auric field in a diffused way so that it is everywhere, spread out evenly. Then let yourself reabsorb it in a diffused manner.

Now that it is not focused on any one particular pinpoint area, you have the ability and the power and the strength to handle the idea because it is now so spread out, so diffused. Then you will reabsorb it at whatever rate you are comfortable in reabsorbing it. And that means you can deal with it at a rate that you are comfortable in dealing with it.

Exploring Polarities in Relationships

Participant: last week I shared um an experience that I had with the idea of polarities and exploring that and having some tremendous areas of and turbulence just straighten out completely.

I continued exploring that this week and decided that one area I would like to explore polarities in was the area of um relationships that I’ve had in the past that have hung up a bit.

in my universe, they hung up for one reason or another. Either because there were, from my opinion, negative aspects to them or something that I didn’t understand about them. Right. Or something that I was judging myself on or something I was judging others on.

I went back over several relationships and just centered myself on them and allowed myself to experience the positive emotions and the negative emotions that came to view with no significances attached. No judgments attached either self judgments or judgments on the person or on the situation we perceive. Right? And I just allowed that to integrate and I started just popping off relationships one after the other and my self began to expand and expand and expand and I felt so full of the love of the experience that I had had both positive and negative that I was just going crazy with the exuberance of it.

There were things that were being shown to me about myself, like one thing in particular that loomed up as a Oh, loomed. Loomed and showed up as this huge thing that I have been judging myself with for eons. And it just went ring your chimes. You know, here it is in big bold red letters and here it is. You can deal with it. That was absolutely wonderful and blew me out of my skull.

Bashar: your synchronicity is most timely. Of course, by definition, you will find that some of the ideas we will be discussing after your break will involve the idea, quote unquote, as you say, colloquially, of ringing your chimes.

Participant: There was one romantic relationship that went on for quite some time and was extremely high and low. Turbulent and exciting and messy and crazy and just all this stuff.

After it was over, my decision on that relationship was to file it away in the section where it has no value and in the section where we know that that was a rotten experience and you don’t have to look at it anymore.

And the person that was filed away in that section was really a turkey, you know. Turkey. Do you understand turkeys? and not to be not to be communicated with ever ever again and hopefully not even ever thought of again.

Well, that is not possible. But go on. Well, I thought I could see but it was held that it was held into that position that filing cabinet and anytime I looked at it and went don’t like that.

Bashar: That is still communication and thought and of course you are communicating with all individuals on many different levels more than you think. Right. But go on we know what you mean. Right.

Participant: I started to reexperience visually and with perceptions. Nice. Little vignettes of the interaction. Nice. First starting with some positive ones that I totally forgot were there and then going into some negative ones that were just from my viewpoint some hair raising negative ones from my experience right well I don’t have any hair to raise so if you did you know what I mean okay so anyway it took about 45 minutes of reviewing and viewing this relationship and just centering myself with it and not knocking off any judgments that came up and knocking off any judgments of myself that came up in relation to it and just letting it permeate me. Nice. And when it was over, the most incredible the most love consuming love for this being just came flooding into my space. My my is that amazing.

What a surprise. Yes. And the it was just like I I couldn’t contain myself. I felt like I was splitting at the seam.

Bashar: Yes, you were. And because that was the real and true emotion for that being that was always there and was channeled and ch not channeled changed with the polarities of the relationship that we mocked up to show us certain things and those significances that I put in there that held the thing down into the filing cabinet that said bad lot evil wicked nasty wrong all those significances meant like nothing but a piece of liver. I mean it was nothing absolutely I didn’t say that totally myself but it means that it meant nothing right the significances were nothing the polarities were nothing the negatives and the positives were nothing the experience of life that we experienced together was fantastic the highs the lows the the going nutso you see now you are in synchronous harmony with what may be termed the higher self or the oversoul which sees all experience as pertaining to its growth. Right? And that is the viewpoint that come out of it. And it’s just like you also therefore recognize from the same viewpoint that there is only one emotion, love, right? And everything is that it’s everything is a variation of that idea, right? And the things that we have done with it in order to experience it and experience different things with it. It was obvious to me when that emotion of yuck, this being yuck turned into fantastic love that they were the exact same thing. They never changed. Nothing changed except the lack of invalidation. Right. Exactly. And the lack of of pushing out that stuff that I considered negative and not letting it be a part of me and let it become the hole that it became.

The Broken Transmission and Shifting Gears

Participant: Certain experiences to liven things up growth occurs. I’m getting it confused that growth occurs sometimes through it life not being so dull and Mediocre.

So, this week I had the experience of um I’ve been I’m feeling a little spy today, folks. Oh, nothing to excuse. Okay. It’s a very natural way to feel. It is for me anyway. I am always spacey as you say.

I’ve been feeling real detached from everything and I’ve been that is now typical symptom of fourth density transformation. You are unlocking from your previous preconceived universe and you are expanding into infinite probable universes. You are having infinite choices. So you feel disoriented, detached, floating around, not anchored to any one particular structure. This is typical. This is the first step in the recognition of your ability to choose what you prefer to choose in your life. Okay. This is a joyous event. Yes. and what I’m experiencing right now. I’d like to be able to to pref well I prefer a different to to pref well I prefer a different reality than what I’m experiencing. And yet I understand that what I’m experiencing I need for my growth. So I am happy.

Bashar: You have only to cease invalidating what you are experiencing to be able to enjoy it. Okay.

Participant: Well, my car is blown it transmission states and um I many of you may create that type of um I many of you may create that type of a reflection in your life as you shift your own gears. Okay.

Bashar: Great. That’s exactly what um what I’m coming to right to the realization of is that my car um and as someone shared a few weeks ago they had a car situation. I worked at Faithfest. Um I worked at uh loving the car and uh thanking it very much for giving me this opportunity to see how um I was judging my uh acceleration. I wanted to accelerate at a faster rate than what I was doing. So um my car was saying it was stuck in second gear, which was kind of the way I was feeling. And um I wanted to get to third gear to experience relationships u male female relationships and I was and you were given a very loving symbol that in order to get to that next gear you have to allow the structure as it used to exist to completely come apart. The structure that used to exist cannot handle the type of shifting you prefer to do. You have to recreate the structure. That is why you are now in neutral. Do you follow me? That is the sign. That is the reflection. That is the symbol. The old system cannot handle the change. Create a new awareness. Create a new system. That can handle the change. You follow me?

Participant: Yeah. I follow you. I I don’t know where to begin to create a new system.

Bashar: You have already begun by allowing the old one to disassemble. You create the new one once again by simply acting upon that which moves you, which drives you forward. You are the vehicle. Let yourself be moved by that which obviously moves you and you will be flowing into the new system. You follow me? Let yourself in this state of seeming disorientation simply recognize that it is your prime opportunity in that state to allow whatever needs to be in your life to be synchronistically attracted to you because now you are not in such a rigidized structure as to prevent what needs to be there in your life to assist you from coming into your life. True. Relax.

Participant: Okay. I I I’ve Oh, easier said than done.

Bashar: If you say so. I don’t mean this as a yes, but for sure.

Participant: Um what I’m experiencing is that I feel very open to um whatever needs to to come into my life. Yes. to come in. And what I’ve what I have had the experience of is that I’ve um a lot of my old ideas of relationships and and men. A lot of my old ideas of relationships and people that um I used to be attracted to have been becoming attracted to me. And I’m able to see that this is not what I prefer in my life. Um but what I do prefer I’m not attracting.

Bashar: And so but yes you are. First of all what you prefer the first sign of what you prefer is to recognize what you don’t prefer. And now you are simply attracting yourself situations that give you the definition of what you don’t prefer so that you can as you say hone in on the definition of what it is you do in fact prefer. So you are getting reflections of your preference. You are simply getting them in a way that allows you to actually define consciously what it is you do prefer because obviously you don’t yet know. So you are creating that opportunity in whatever way you can by attracting situations you don’t prefer so that you will then have a clearer understanding of what it is you do prefer and won’t feel like you were wandering around in the dark. Okay.

Participant: Well, I had one one experience of of an individual um when I went to San Francisco uh on the plane.

I had one experience with an individual on a plane which was a an experience of an individual I would prefer and um he was very spiritually um active and we had a lot of the same metaphysical feelings and he was into a lot of creative stuff. Oh, right. I was saying this is the kind of individual he was physically attractive.

I mean we had a lot a lot of connection and I felt that we that he he felt the same way and he took my card and I have yet I have yet to hear from him and I said do not put expectations upon this idea. If you have already communicated in any way, shape or form with that individual, you already have a relationship. You are now putting demands on how you think the relationship should manifest.

Talking to that individual and discovering each other is a part of the relationship. Stop pushing.

Participant: I don’t see how I’m pushing. I’m just You’re saying I’ve been waiting and waiting and waiting for this individual. I haven’t returned my call. I hadn’t been trying to call. I mean, I don’t have his number, but I just I’ve just been, you know, it was like I thought maybe last week he Are you waiting for this individual to call or are you getting on with your life?

Participant: I’m getting on with my life. I’m getting on with my life. I’m just looking at the reflection that this individual has to show me. Yes. And I want to glean from it whatever. What does it show you? Share that with me right now if you will. Okay. Is very simple. Keep it simple. Keep it basic. What does it show you? Your ability to interact with such an individual. What does that show you? It shows me that I am attracting um a higher Keep it simple. What does your ability to attract such an individual show you? I want four words.

Participant: I want him.

Bashar: Four words. [Music] Um, Um, [Music] that is not what it shows you. [Music] Uh, would you like some assistance? Uh, would you like some assistance? Repeat after me. Okay. I I am am the the same same Repeat it. I am the same.

Bashar: That is what attracting that individual shows you. You are the same. You have changed. Only by changing can you attract an individual who reflects those ideas to you. So what it immediately shows you is I am the same. I have changed. What you actually want is to know that. Not so much that you have to have him. But you have interacted with an individual that has been willing to interact with you to show you that you are now on that level or more than one of those individuals will interact with you in ways that represent what you are expressing your desire to be.

But don’t put a demand on the timing. Simply assume that now that you have attracted such an individual, you know you are of that vibrational frequency, therefore you will in the appropriate place and timing attract whatever is necessary. Okay.

Participant: Um at the wedding that I went to when I got to San Francisco, I attracted two of the same old types that I used to attract, people who are into drugs and drinking. And which do you prefer?

Participant: I prefer the one on the plane.

Bashar: Then simply understand that that is the one you make the conscious decision with to say to yourself, I am the same. And with the others, you make the conscious decision to recognize you are not the same. Then that reinforces your ability to create more attraction of the first type. But as long as you continue to get used to the idea instead of fully 100% trusting in the change, you may still continue to attract for a while the idea of the other individuals just to let you know that you have in fact changed just to remind you. See what what I had taken from the attracting the people with the drugs and the drinking problem that I was back in my No, no, no, no, no. Have we discussed with you the idea that no situation has built-in meaning?

Then why have you put the meaning that you have in that neutral situation rather than simply recognizing it as another opportunity to know you have changed, you are different? Why assume that the situation is representational of a so-called failure when you have the opportunity to simply recognize it as an opportunity to see how much you have changed?

Participant: what I had shared about um you you had told me about the rescuing in my girlfriend situation a few weeks back and so that was in that that same week I was getting to see situations in which I had um rescued and Mel’s getting involved with alcoholics for example were situations in which I used to be able to play rescuer so I said Okay, this is an opportunity for me to see that I don’t need to clay this anymore and I don’t prefer to do that.

Bashar: You do not have to be a rescuer. You cannot rescue anyone, but you can be of assistance to them by being the fully changed individual you know yourself to be because then you reflect back to them their opportunity to change as well. You can be assistive to them in any way, shape or form that they have attracted you into their lives to be of assistance. But it does not have to be anything in any way, shape, or form that is a reflection of the ideas that you are actually living. Nor does it have to be in any way, shape, or form depleting to you to be of service to them. By simply reflecting to them the idea of the change you have made and the peace that it gives you, you are then a reflection to them of your belief in your own self-empowerment to create the reality you desire. And in allowing them to understand that from you, if they are willing to hear that from you, then you can teach them that they are also as powerful as they need to be to create anything they want in life without having to hurt anyone else or themselves in order to have it.

You can be of service after you have changed. Understand? It is simply now that you are still reluctant to hear this because you think that being of service to those individuals keeps you embroiled on that level and it doesn’t.

Participant: I’m confused of how to be of service without getting into by being who you are.

Bashar: By knowing that if you have changed the idea you are showing them is that the change you have made represents your knowledge that you are now selfowered and are not putting your power in the symbols around you. You are not relying on the symbols around you for your power as individuals who create addictions do. You are now a reflection of the idea that your power comes from within from your connection to infinite creation and that you can create anything you desire in life without having to hurt else or yourself in order to have it. This is what you can teach them. But teaching them that through your joy and unconditional love does not create within you a feeling of being dragged down. You elevate them.

All it takes is conviction that the change you have made is real. And then you will not continue to create for creating it. You are any of the so-called negative feelings about your interaction with them. If you do interact with them, recognize that you co-created it. The idea is that when you change, if you still interact with them, then you can be of service to them. If you cannot be of service to them, you won’t interact with them. But if you do interact with them, then there is a way for you to be of service. It can be as simple as simply being the changed person you know you are. You can’t be responsible for them. You are, however, completely responsible to them by being completely who you now believe yourself to be without getting in there and telling them about. You can share ideas with them if they seem open to the idea of that communication, but you don’t have to force it upon them. You are simply telling them this is one option.

Take it or leave it. I’m having a good time saying to you later, you follow me? If they are truly interested, they will ask you again. They will ask you for the information. And that in turn will allow you to know that they are not depleting you but that you are simply giving of your love in whatever way shape or form you can be of assistance in. It is not that you are giving your power to them. No you are simply reminding them of their own power. That is all. That does not tire anyone.

Participant: I got off on all this this stuff and I wanted to have an understanding um of of how to be able to create my car to be the way I want it to be, which is not um with a broken transmission.

But do not become focused and frustrated on that idea. Allow yourself again to know you are open and the vehicle you are will continue to move and will attract if you need one a moving vehicle.

There are many many many many many many many many many many many many ways in which such an idea can manifest in your life. Do not restrict the ways you think it should have to manifest in order to be viable. when I had the awareness of how I could um of what it meant to me in my life and the gear shifting and my accelerating and I patted myself on the back and said I was accelerating exactly the perfect speed I need to and I’ve done such a good job and I thank the car for service when I went out to the car I expected that it was not going to have a broken but you see that is your but you see that is your expectation the idea does not have to manifest that way you by all means can go and check it anytime you feel like But the idea again is that if that particular vehicle continues to have a broken transmission, then don’t be disappointed. You are then only reinforcing the validity of that broken transmission. You are then also keeping away any other vehicle that might come into your life that doesn’t have a broken transmission because you are insisting that the only way you will accept the transformation as valid is to have the idea of that particular transmission be repaired.

Participant: I’m having it repaired, but I thought I could repair it without that through my transformation without having to pay all this money out.

Bashar: I think you are missing the point completely. Pay attention. You can do anything you want. You can check that transmission as many times as you want. An individual that is fully in one’s selfmpowerment when you go out to check that transmission on a whim will not care whether it is broken or not because you trust that if it is still broken that’s the way it’s supposed to be and that is what will allow the situation to manifest in your life to most easily do what comes next. Now, if you had been willing to simply let it slide in that way, the idea could have been that you would have been provided automatically with the money to have it repaired. That is simply one way of having it repaired. Do understand that the idea of expecting it to be repaired in what you’d formally call a miraculous fashion doesn’t necessarily mean that somebody giving you the money to have it repaired is any less miraculous. Do not make demands upon the way the idea of the universe manifests itself. Let it manifest itself in the easiest possible way. If the easiest possible manner is to have someone simply automatically give you the money to have it fixed, why should you insist upon it repairing itself?

Keep it easy. Keep it simple. Understand manifestation in light takes the path of least resistance. What you think with your ego may be the path of least resistance is not always necessarily the case. The idea of having allowed that transmission to be whole is certainly far from impossible. But if the idea is to simply create it in that way so you can simply give yourself another pat on the back, that may not be the path of least resistance. The idea is that if you truly live in the moment, you will recognize that whatever is happening is there for a reason. and you will allow the easiest manifestable way for it to change to come into your life. Regardless of whether or not that easiest manifestable way is a way that you may consider mundane. Nothing is mundane. As we have said, there are no mundane or boring situations, only mundane and bored minds. You follow me? Let everything in life be a miracle. No matter how it happens, even if it happens in the most typical of manners, that may be the path of least resistance.

Participant: I just wanted to be able to what we are saying is that was confused about how you all right the idea can happen in many different ways but what we are primarily saying right now is that if you were willing to remove the focus of the expectation not expectancy but expectation that the idea is that the transmission simply had to be whole. Perhaps you would have allowed another avenue to manifest in your life where the money would have simply come up without you having to feel that you were putting anything out in that way. Or you may have attracted someone who was willing to simply fix it for free for a service for something else. Who knows? Maybe you would have won a new transmission or a new car. The idea again in recognizing what you prefer, you must be very very very very very honest with yourself about what you truly believe can occur in your life. And if you actually have an easier belief that someone can hand you the money to fix the transmission than you do about the molecular cohesiveness of the transmission reforming, then be honest with yourself. Let it come through the money. Let it come through service to you. do not insist that it has to be the molecular reforming of the transmission. You follow me?

Participant: Yes, for sure. Thank you.

Bashar: You follow me? Yes, for sure. Thank you. Thank you very much.

Participant: Yes. Connecting with that idea, it occurred to me that abundance abundance has thousands of facets. Yay. And so when you allow it to happen however it’s going to happen, you’re never disappointed because it always happens.

Bashar: Yes. It is a matter of not only trust but honesty with yourself about what you truly believe is possible. Not to say that can never happen in your life, but it doesn’t have to happen now in order for you to feel like you’re actually making progress. There are many other ways for you to understand that idea. Many other ways. And you may have thought, well, just having the transmission pop back, well, that would be the best way. But maybe the best quote unquote way would actually have been allowing another individual to perform a service for you because then two individuals are served by the same idea. You follow me?

Participant: Yeah. That is why you should not insist upon the manifestation. Allow the manifestation and in whatever way, shape or form it manifests. That is the way that is of best service to all concerned. The idea of using as a visualization, as a focal point, the idea of the transmission reforming itself is all well and good. But do not insist that it has to happen exactly as you have visualized it. It will get back together one way or another. It will get back together in the way that serves the most individual.

Relationship Triangles and Limitations

Participant: You then you then you then you about four years ago I was traveling in Australia and I met a guy there who I was working in a hospital at the time and we worked the night shift together and we became very close friends. Can all of you hear this individual? Can all of you hear this individual? Um, it could be louder. Okay. Um, I met this individual in Australia and we’ve developed a strong friendship and he stimulated in me a decision or a choice to turn my focus in life around. And that’s kind of four years ago that’s led me to be here and to be doing a lot of the things that I’m doing now. Oh, right. Now during that time he was had a had a relationship with a lady there who was married who still is married and has a couple of children. They had a strong relationship and he seemed to be very attached to her and she to him however because of her religion and the fact that she was married she’s a Roman Catholic. She didn’t want to make the commitment to divorce her husband who she doesn’t really love. All right. and she does love this individual, my friend Graeme. Thanks. Anyway, I left Australia and until 3 weeks ago, I had no communication whatsoever with my friend and he came to visit me from Australia and we talked much about our experiences between then and now. And it seems that his relationship now is one of he’s kind of he had pulled away from the relationship with this woman and had attached himself or had developed a relationship with another woman who has a child and who really loves him and he also loves her but he still feels attached to this other lady. And they you recognize first of all if it may be of assistance before you go on that in our society every single member in our society considers him or herself to be married to every other member simultaneously. And thus many different types of relationship manifestation can occur within that society without the ideas of the rigors of an imposed structure upon it. for each and every individual knows that they are being dealt with in honesty and integrity and true unconditional love. Thank you. Does that assist you somewhat? Continue.

Participant: Um, so basically what I’m driving at is that Oh, another transmission. Thank you. Um he’s coming when he was here 3 weeks ago he asked me before going across country to New York if I had any suggestions as to how he’s now back with this original relationship decided to to get back into that and however he wants to make some kind of a decision to pull away from this relationship without experiencing the pain and the suffering that he thinks is going to That is a foregone conclusion of totally pulling out of this relationship. Again, once a relationship is created, it never ends. The definition may change. The positions of the individuals within it may shift, but it never ends. Yet, this is a truth for me also. However, he has asked me to if I can to assist him and any information I can give him in assisting him in pulling out of this relationship um that I that he’s open to suggestions. It’s all right. So if you can share the idea first and foremost is to recognize however that this individual has been involved with these individuals in many different lifetimes and they have danced around each other many different ways being reflections for each other many many times. Now the idea in this particular life is the exploration of limitation and whether or not the individuals in these relationships are going to allow limitations to demand or impose the system upon what they feel to be true for themselves or not. The idea in this way, however, is that they have chosen each other at this particular timing so that they would have the opportunity to explore this idea of whether or not they will allow self-imposed limitations to truly be in a sense what gets in their way or whether they will allow themselves in openness and honesty to communicate with all individuals involved in all the aspects of the relationship and allow it to come to the surface to light so that it can be balanced out in a way that is in your terms mutually beneficial consciously, satisfactoryy. for all concerned. The idea is to first and foremost recognize that there may be a bit of the idea involved that we have discussed before where you find that an individual though it is not so prominent with this particular individual as you perceive the energy of this individual you are speaking of. But an individual many times will in not understanding themselves to be a complete individual will think they need a relationship in order to be complete and will only therefore usually attract a relationship to reflect their own belief in their own incompleteness or inability to create completeness within their life rather than knowing themselves to be complete and allowing themselves to attract a relationship into their lives that reflects that degree of completeness. Now at this time therefore according to the agreement that this individual has made with these other individuals many different ideas of limitation are necessary to be explored. All that is necessary is complete and open honesty in communication. Lack of fear in the idea that if you express these ideas and share them with all the individuals involved honestly and openly we are not only speaking of the females but also the other males. Then in this way perhaps it will be something that can be utilized in growth in an understanding. And many times you will find a very surprising thing will occur as soon as you take the step toward opening up an examination and honest way of what all of the relationship is about and let it be there for the reason it is there rather than for what you think it should be there for. Many times the original impulse or the original desire no longer exists. There is no longer a need to feel that that relationship has to complete itself in the way you used to think it had to complete itself because it has completed itself according to the reason it existed. And the reason may simply be to allow these individuals to explore the idea of whether or not they will allow the society’s limitations to block them from what they know to be true for themselves or whether they are willing to discuss it and perhaps with assistance with each other with love, no forcing to change those parameters in a way that will allow them more expansion of self and more expression of that love. Once they may get to that point, they may paradoxically find it completely unnecessary to physiologically continue the relationship because the purpose of the relationship has been served to get them to face the idea of the exploration of the limitations they are facing within the relationship.