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Habits and Belief Systems
While you are exploring what you desire in your life, many times you will also create blockages, impasses, stumbling blocks.
Whether it comes from the present life or another life, you will usually hinge it on habit.
Habit is something that you have been taught to do something in a certain way, having believed that that is the only reality.
Thus you find yourself exemplifying that methodology over and over again.
Even when you are dealing with things that no longer need that particular methodology as a tool of relating to the new idea you are being or becoming.
Now, in no way, shape or form are we saying that your experience of this idea is invalid. No. But do recognize that the idea that something is the result of what you call a habit is still only yet another way to believe that your reality is rather than a representation of the way it actually is. Regardless of what you believe, the idea of something being a habit only has manifestable reality in your physical experience when you believe that your definition of a habit is something that is difficult to change.
The habit is only a concept like any other concept. It is not a fundamental law of existence. You may allow it to attain that status when you choose to view that the situations that occur in your life are the result of something that you deem to be difficult to change. But in this way, do recognize that the idea of a habit is a construction, an artificial construct just like anything else. And that basing a situation in your life, the reason for its occurrence upon what you call a habit is only basing one illusion upon another. You are not basing it upon anything that has any more substance, any more foundation than any of the situations you are attempting to change.
You all follow along so far.
Simply in this way would suggest that when you are creating your own cognitions of your relationship to the realities you are experiencing. For you are the realities you are experiencing. You are the reality you are experiencing. It is not something outside you. And in this way, we would suggest that you pay attention to yourself. Pay attention to how you construct your conscious relationship to the idea you are experiencing. Listen to yourselves. Many times you will hear in your own words, in your own patterns of thought.
You will hear how you are consciously choosing to believe that the situation is difficult to change. Listen to yourselves. Listen to how you phrase ideas. Listen to what you say. For many more times than you think, it is a consciously aware choice that you are making to have the experiences you are having simply based upon what you hear yourself saying you believe in. Listen to yourselves and recognize that so-called habits are only created by you to be habits because of the way you choose to think about the concept. That is the only thing that makes a habit a habit. The way you choose to think about it. The way you choose to create such a concept to exist in your reality. There is nothing built in as a mechanism that makes a habit work regardless of your belief system. Nothing. It is all a product of your belief system.
There is nothing that you experience in physical reality that is not a product of your conscious belief system except for the generalized themes that you experience in life. But these are very very general. All of the specifics are the result of your belief system as a physical consciousness. And if you are simply willing to pay more attention to yourselves, give yourselves the respect you are due and love yourselves unconditionally enough to listen, then you will hear yourselves creating the very realities you are struggling to change. And then you will simply recognize you do not have to struggle to change them. All you need to do is to say something else. And to know that that is just as true as anything you have ever said.
Question
Strong Addictions and Dependency
Asker
We have the real strong habits like heroin, that stronger drug addictions. Is that really because the people that have chosen to use that as a tool are such strong creators that they have done an excellent job of creating dependency in a sense.
Bashar
Yes, they could walk away from that still. Oh yes. Do recognize that the usual connection to that particular idea is the creation of the removal of taking responsibility for your creations from yourself and putting it on something else. But you are still creating that. That is how powerful you are.
Asker
Is that the same thing as spiritual anything?
Bashar
Everything in physical reality is only a symbol of the idea you are being. Nothing in physical reality comes with its own innate existence until you give it life and meaning. You are all of the physical reality you are experiencing. One more time. You are all of the physical reality you are experiencing. Follow me. Therefore, any physiological symbol is only a representation, a reflection, a mirroring of the idea you are being. In a form that says you are still creating the idea of your reality to be something outside of you rather than what you are. That is the only reason you need a physiological reflection because you believe that as a physical being reality must be reflected outside of you.
Asker
Does that mean you can change your body to pretty much basically now?
Bashar
There will be to some extent some limitations according to once again the generalized overall agreement you have with the mass consciousness as to what it is that will serve the mass consciousness. Anything beyond that in your terms, you will not find yourself able to change into. Or let us put it this way. It is not that you cannot change into it. But if you do change into something that does not serve this mass consciousness, then you will change out of the mass consciousness at the same time you change into the other idea. You will disappear from this reality. You follow me?
Asker
Yes, I do.
Bashar
But you can change into a variety of ideas in this mass consciousness. Do recognize that because this is the transformational life, this is that particular transformational era in your history, so to speak, that there are many more things that are possible now than used to be because you are at the end of the cycle of limitation. And thus, your mass consciousness is allowing for more things to be possible to reflect to itself that it can and does in fact create all of the reality it experiences. So there is more, as you would say, leeway now than there used to be. However, again, recognize that if it does not serve any of the purposes within your entire civilization to all of a sudden become blue and have six arms, then you will have chosen to agree to not make that kind of a change. But if you do make that kind of a change, you will not be in this reality. You will be in the one that making that kind of a change or being that way is of service to.
Asker
What are the general themes that you birth, death, that idea experiences, let us say
Bashar
of your ability to recognize to become cognizant of the fact that you do create your reality. That is a general theme. Ideas of recognizing your own deservability of abundance. That is a general theme. You follow me?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
There are many ways to explore these ideas. Deservability, inherent birthright of ecstasy, the fact that you create your own reality. These are all general themes. Everything else that is more specific you are choosing as a physical consciousness to simply create that way to explore the general theme. In other words, let us say the general theme is recognizing that since you are connected to All-That-Is you are as abundant as you need to be. The idea of exploring abundance can be explored through the physiological specifics of quote unquote being rich or being poor. You are still exploring the idea of abundance as a general theme. And all of the ideas in between all are still the specifics that explore the general theme of abundance. You follow me? It is up to you to decide which you prefer. The higher consciousness that you are that made the choice of the general theme does not care what you prefer. Everything to the higher consciousness is learning everything. Therefore, that is why it is left up to your free will to decide which way you prefer to explore the general theme. You are certainly more than allowed to explore it in ecstasy. It is up to you. Does that assist you?
Asker
Yes, it does. Thank you.
Asker
Sharing.
Bashar
Yes. All right. If you feel such a connection, then obviously it is something that rings true within your vibration.
Asker
Can you tell me anything about? We just connection after all this time.
Bashar
Yes. Then that is in and of itself a sign of the timing and lets you know that there is as much information there as you wish. What do you think?
Asker
All right.
Bashar
That does not mean you have not had past connections. But do remember that you are creating the past and the future from the present always. The present is the only time you ever exist within. Ever. Therefore, whether you have a cognition of a so-called past connection or a cognition of a so-called future connection, a recognition or a precognition, it is only that that is where your focus lies with reference to the life you are living now that you are making that connection.
Everything, every level, every interaction that there is to have with that individual, you have had and will have. The ones you quote unquote remember, the ones you find yourself focusing upon are the ones that may be of service to you to symbolically reflect the ideas you are choosing to be in this life. From this point of view, different lives may connect into different other lives for their reference points if they need to. Therefore, as you are creating your life now, how is it, as you have already expressed to some degree with the idea of the notation of a future life, how is it that you feel that knowing about this connection of energy, knowing about this interaction, this blending of your consciousness with your friend’s consciousness, how does that allow you to make a cognition of your life right now? What does it do for you?
Asker
I like magic and I like to—
Bashar
Oh, create that. All right. Well, everything in your life is magic. Everything.
Asker
When I just today I shared a friend’s baby and I was just thinking, do I create that or is that picking up? Well, I could be playing with.
Bashar
All right. All right. Now, in a sense, recognize this. Let us put it this way. If we were talking to you, oh, let us say 20 of your years ago, I simply would have said, yes, you are picking up on a past life. Today, however, I will say you are picking up on a past life that you are creating from the present in order to fulfill the needs to recognize who you are now. It is both true.
Asker
I do enjoy it.
Bashar
Yes. All you need to do is recognize that your imagination will always supply you with whatever connections are valid to the idea you are being. Do not look for accuracy. That is a relative term. The truth is composed of all truths. Therefore somewhere.
Asker
Oh yes.
Bashar
Therefore, however your imagination attracts you to symbolize a connection is the way you need to symbolize it to understand it. That is all there is to it.
Asker
Okay.
Asker
Oh, by all means. Curious. Follow your curiosity which leads me to believe I’m probably on the buzz after of course can never be off your own button. I saw like a honeycomb or cubicle like a vast space and there was like seemed like all the way around the wall or whatever. Keep going like it was there was no lit— I don’t— self luminescent.
Bashar
Keep going. Feelings, impressions, sounds, thoughts. Keep going.
Asker
I guess that’s as far as I learned at that point.
Bashar
Keep going.
Asker
Okay. Well, probably the belly of the mother ship.
Bashar
Thank you.
Asker
It looks like we understand the idea. Thank you. Thank you. How’s that assistant? Find it.
Asker
Sure. A shark. Nice. Could you tell me why the dinosaurs died out on this planet?
Bashar
In this way, you will find that there have been transmutations of many of those animal types into many others. And there are still variations that exist in different planar dimensions and a few that exist even in your own dimension. Some of them have also transformed into the life forms that you understand and recognize to be what you call the lizards and also the birds. In this way, however, the overall idea you are referring to, you are now as a civilization beginning to be aware to some degree of the idea of what you call the meteoric commentary bombardment that altered and shifted the electromagnetic field of your planet and caused there to be a cessation of a certain type of life form that beat at a certain pulse and could no longer be sustained. Recognize that the idea now proposed by your civilization of recent times of the recognition that this cometary or meteoric bombardment could have been caused by the idea of what you call a dark star orbiting your system is in fact the case. You do have a dark star orbiting your system.
Asker
Thank you. Thank you. Is that a third density dark star?
Bashar
Yes. Otherwise it would not affect the idea and pull the meteors to your planet.
Asker
I heard that it was Malbeck.
Bashar
Malbeck. Well, that is the idea of what you are referring to now as the remnants of your asteroid belt.
Asker
Well, was it the radioactive sensation or whatever that word was that actually have the scientists traces of radioactivity or just mostly
Bashar
again the idea is meteoric bombardment and what is not yet understood by your scientists is electromagnetic shifting of your planetary vibration.
Asker
What kind of effect does that dark have?
Bashar
The idea again is that you will find there will be reversals of magnetic and electromagnetic and gravitic fields in your solar system as the star passes through from time to time. It will also pull with it the idea of meteoric debris which causes much of the bombardment. In your terms of time frame, 11.2 million years. It is not light years away. It is connected to your system but outside the orbits of all of your inner planets.
Asker
A dark star. What is the cycle that passes through?
Bashar
As you have already ascertained between the idea of what you call 25 to 33 million years. It is in that sense halfway through the cycle. Last time being the dinosaurs.
Asker
Nice. Is the dark star anything to do with the black hole?
Bashar
It is compacted mass but not as compacted as that. It is simply not luminous because in your terms it is compacted mass and does not radiate the idea of illumination except what you would call the infrared.
Asker
What effect does it have on the physical and emotional bodies of man?
Bashar
In this way recognize again it will have to do with connections of the gravitic fields the tensor dynamics of your system and can to some degree represent the idea of the patterns and the cycles that you have allowed yourself to create upon your planet to begin with. The idea of cyclical extinction or transformation itself is connected with that idea.
Asker
Well, that since we’re on a duality planet here where there is good and evil.
Bashar
No, not good and evil.
Asker
What is there?
Bashar
Positive and negative expression. Good and evil are your own labels and are judgments.
Asker
What do you then how do you define positive and negative? Thank you.
Bashar
Positive is recognizing that you are a part of All-That-Is. It is integration, integrity in that way. Knowing that you are a part of All-That-Is. Negative is separation, limitation and judgment. Separation of yourself from All-That-Is. Thank you. Therefore, the idea in and of itself of the labeling of positive and negative energy as good and evil is in itself a negative expression because it is a judgment and a separation.
Asker
Is there another star that our solar system including our sun revolves around an orbit of around once every 25,000 years.
Bashar
There are cycles in that way. Yes. But recognize it is mostly the idea of what you call black holes that creates the massive revolutions of systems. So our sun is revolving around the center of this particular galaxy. And this particular galaxy is revolving around a center point. And clusters of galaxies revolve around their center points and on and on and on. Universes revolve around their center points and on and on and on.
Asker
Does our consciousness shift, our mass consciousness shift as we evolve affect the electromagnetic field.
Bashar
Oh yes. For understand mentality is created in the electromagnetic field by your consciousness. You affect it all the time anyway. What you call weather is a direct result of your emotional mass conscious effect upon the electromagnetic field of your life. You follow? Does that answer your question?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
You sure?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
Somebody may have asked this, but I wasn’t present. The there’s supposedly a hole in our ozone layer as what it is
Bashar
the product of a cyclical magnetic lens. In this way, you will find that it fluctuates in what you call annual terminology once per orbit of your planet. Many planets have them. It is simply a type of magnetic lens that causes a dispersion of certain gases within your atmosphere to allow for the crystallization of the gases in that area temporarily.
Asker
Oh, so it’s really nothing to be alarmed about then.
Bashar
Not really. Great. In this way, you will find however that there is a change of the balance in the idea of the gases in your atmosphere and that is the idea that many of you are connected to with concern.
Asker
But those gases are then should be escaping through that hole, right?
Bashar
Not so much in this way. Escaping for your terms of gravity will pull them back for the most part. But recognize that this idea, this recognition of the magnetic lens cycle will tell you a few things about the idea of what your planet is as a generator, as a dynamo, so to speak. And in this way, you can avail yourself of the information that it provides you. To once again, as certain individuals upon your planet already have discovered many times, to avail yourself of the pulse of electromagnetic power that your entire planet can provide for you, rather than the generation of power in the ways you are doing it now. The planet itself can provide you with all the energy you need for anything. In a sense.
Asker
Will we be tapping into that power?
Bashar
Excuse me. Why not? It is up to you. It has already been attempted many times.
Asker
That knowledge that we have the knowledge.
Bashar
You have had so for quite some time. But again, the idea of the way you have structured your society says that you do not want that to happen. So you create structures within your society that suppress the information because the way you have set them up, they are protecting you, so to speak, from certain kinds of ideas that you allow them to protect you from because you are not taking responsibility for your own self-empowerment and recognizing that you are your governments.
Asker
Coming out.
Bashar
As all you need to understand is that when you change the idea that power is not power over others but self-empowerment, then those structures of society you have created will recognize that they do not need to suppress anything. For the release of the information and the sharing of the information will not be a loss of power. It will be a gaining of self-empowerment. But because of the way you think of power and because you think that vulnerability is weakness, then that is the type of society and the type of effects you create and so much of the information that you have available to you is not dispersed.
Asker
Is Tesla’s work some of this information you’re talking about?
Bashar
A great deal of it. Understand that that individual knew exactly the relationship of the understanding of the electromagnetic and gravitic dynamic tensor fields of your world, knew exactly how to utilize them in that way. But once again, the structure of your society at that time as a mass consciousness, let us say, voted against it. But that available technology is yours any time you decide it is yours, some of it. But do understand that because of the degree of suppression that has existed, much of the information is not known even to those who have suppressed. It will be understood that the way to recognize the rest of the information will be when they are willing to share it with everyone. Because only then will you be the unification that will have access to all of the information instead of pieces. As long as you decide they will. It is up to all of you to become self-empowered and recognize that you are not chastising them for what they have been, for you have made them that way. You are your governments.
Asker
How much power is there?
Bashar
As much as you believe.
Asker
There is the idea to us of what you call prayer and light work are once again simply symbols of knowing what is true for you and acting like it. And yes, we believe that works always. Thank you.
Asker
Yes. 222. Thank you. And you woke up just before.
Asker
Yes, I did. And I had a sensing, but I didn’t know. I woke up and I sat up and I said, “Why am I awake?” And then the bed started jolting all around. Frank slept all through it. But I was wondering about this young lady’s question that she asked you previously about the earthquakes and stuff. What was the synchronicity with that event and some of our transformation in our social consciousness? Was there something taking place last night?
Bashar
That’s again the passage through of a gateway and in this way on the cusp of something that perhaps not to you specifically but to other individuals. A week ago of your time we mentioned that there would be a gateway on what you call 77.
Asker
I missed that. What do you mean by gateway?
Bashar
The idea of a shift in the electromagnetic field that represents a shift in your mass consciousness and therefore a release and an absorption and a channeling of that energy. In that way you are making adjustments and you are seeing them reflected in your planet. Thank you.
Asker
It has to do with many old connections of Harvard negativity. As you already know, you remember.
Bashar
What do you mean by that?
Asker
The idea is that that area that you call Palm Springs, many of your years ago, was a recipient to what you would call extraterrestrial civilizations that arrived upon your planet to begin a new cycle of life and rebirth to allow there to be the blending of positive and negativity so that there would not be the domination of negativity that they had within their own systems. Thus for you it is a local focal point of the idea of having absorbed and blended and integrated old and ancient ideas of negativity which you no longer need. That is why the energy in that place has now been crystallized and so that you have made a step towards fourth density as a group all at once.
Bashar
For sure. One moment.
Asker
Oh, not sorry. You are next. Yes. Yes. Can you possible to use the law of universal ratios in probabilities?
Bashar
To some extent. But again recognize that because this is the transformation, such things as odds tend to begin to lose their meaning. For everything at any given moment is exactly at zero. No matter what has gone before, there are ratios. Yes. Are they constant to some degree in general terms, but again, portions of them are beginning to fluctuate. What is it you wish to apply this idea to?
Asker
Probabilities.
Bashar
This way there is some recognition of cycles but do also remember that in a sense you are at the end of many of those cycles and will not experience them again. Yes, but they will not last as long. The idea of all of your experiencing of limitation and judgment has occupied let us say tens hundreds of thousands of your years, millions of years. The beginning of the cycle of integration only requires two to three thousand years and then you will no longer be physical. So the idea is that any cycles you are now going to begin to recognize through the ratios you are familiar with will take on new meanings, will begin to create polar inversions of a sort. There will always be two sides, so to speak, to any cycle. And you can begin to recognize that the cycles are not so much ideas of predictability, but recognitions of opportunity and change. Does that assist you?
Asker
Thank you. Yes.
Asker
Do you know Rona to some degree? Do you communicate on one level? Can you— the idea of a communication? Yeah.
Bashar
And knowing that entity simply you will find that all consciousness now associated in assisting your civilization forms some level of their awareness, some level of their existence to be in communication constantly with all other consciousnesses being of assistance to you. On that level there is communication. Not so much within what you would call the specifics of my personality consciousness with that consciousness directly but on the level of the association of the overall idea that we are reflecting to you as a society. There is communication. There is the recognition of timing. There is interaction. So that all of course that is why we are both— recognize that any so-called discrepancies or disagreements come from your recognition and interpretation of the information you are getting.
Asker
I had a question about I watched a video and he said to a man that he smoked marijuana that he was going to die before he was ready and I can’t die before you’re ready.
Bashar
Oh, thank you. Recognize once again that what is said to certain individuals is said because that is what that individual may believe they need to hear to make a change.
Asker
Nice. I know he seems to be the one that I found that I have no—
Bashar
again understand this all consciousness being channeled upon your planet at this time will find different avenues of expression, different vehicles and different levels of relationship symbolically because there are many different levels of relationship and many symbolic understandings upon your planet. Therefore, the information in general is the same but will be clothed in specific symbols in order to reach those who come from those symbolic understandings. Otherwise, they wouldn’t understand it at all. There are only in some cases individuals upon your planet that will only begin to understand that they are creating their reality when at first they are told that someone else will do something for them. Then they will believe that there is power to make a change. Then slowly, subtly and surely the power is given back to that individual. Recognize that there is always within any interaction a myriad number of opportunities to recognize what is in fact true for you. Now, if I told you that your doing something would allow you to die quote unquote before you were ready, and you simply recognized, as you have done so, that that is not possible, then it is your duty to say so. To recognize that I am giving you an opportunity to stand up for what you believe in. Well, you do. But the idea we are simply illustrating is that many times many of the consciousness ends will say things in certain ways that you interpret in one way but are being done for a reason that you do not consciously perceive at the moment because you do not understand the idea of the relationship going on between the entity and that being on your planet and what it is that the entity sees will trigger something in that being.
Asker
A lot of souls that are like kind of say waiting in line but I would like to communicate to people and that when we’re ready they’ll just like somebody will be ready for you. Yes. Is the Ouija board a good way of?
Bashar
It is a way if you enjoy it more than anything else as a symbol then it is your perfect way. Everything is a tool. Everything is a symbol. If you are attracted to it then obviously for you it rings true. If you change your mind so be it.
Asker
That bow tie symbol. No. What is the difference between you and ascended master?
Bashar
That’s a good one. May I answer the question with a question?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
What is the difference between an ascended master and you?
Asker
An ascended master speaks.
Bashar
Well, we’re not physical.
Asker
I figured that. Well, so what? I don’t know.
Bashar
I’m wondering what this, you know, this the idea in generalized terms are simply a reference point to individual consciousnesses that are willing to recognize that they do in fact create their reality, no matter what level they are on. Okay? Ascended simply refers to the idea of a transformational consciousness connection and assimilation to all the levels upon which you exist for whatever effect that creates in whatever level you happen to be projecting through.
Asker
Is that then have to do with this the white brotherhood?
Bashar
Oh, in a sense. But again, that is your third density symbological reference point for another idea of an extension of your own consciousnesses. You follow me?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
Not that it is not congruent with other consciousnesses as well, but they are simply no more powerful than you are. They simply know that they are self-empowered, and they assist you to remember that you are. Do remember that a master is the first one to remind you that you are a master. Thank you. So look in the mirror and you will see a master.
Asker
Is there any correlation in a sense?
Bashar
Yes. Again, an event of timing, a recognition that certain foundations and groundwork had been laid down, and thus another doorway could be moved through, a new level of understanding and relay. Thank you.
Asker
Did you like the light show?
Bashar
I was not scanning at that time.
Asker
Can you scare all your from time to time when we are in your neighborhood? Were you busy doing something else?
Bashar
Yes. Of course.
Asker
Do you remember what it was?
Bashar
Yes.
Asker
Would you share it with us?
Bashar
Yes. Is there any other time was interacting with other civilization and was interacting with different levels of consciousness regarding some of the changes going on between your civilization and another civilization that is experiencing some ideas of parallelity with regard to the expression of borders and such that you create.
Asker
Where is the civilization?
Bashar
In another density of the star you call Canopus.
Asker
Star. Hey, I’m doing some adventures. I’m just discovering stones. I’m going to be working making jewelry and I’m going to try to not try. I’m going—
Bashar
Oh, thank you. I’m going to be using the vibrational qualities. Going to— Well, I haven’t done it yet, but you haven’t. You haven’t. You are doing it right now as you discuss it.
Asker
Okay. Is that not a part of the idea?
Bashar
Yeah, I’m exploring. All right, then. You are doing it right now. You will be doing it in many different ways but you are doing it right now.
Asker
Okay. I’d like to explore an aspect of that with you.
Bashar
All right.
Asker
Today I bought a lot of just samples of different stones that I found in the book that mystic minerals is the title of it and mystic. Yeah. I didn’t judge the cover information.
Bashar
All right. Pretty good.
Asker
I was wondering if you could tell me if there was like any general way to get the best quality out of the stones. Like I’m sure meditating will help, but in regards to using it for other people too.
Bashar
Again, you will only always attract those individuals that you need to interact with to create and co-create whatever effect you need to represent the path you are being.
Asker
Okay. Thank you.
Asker
Thank you. Yay. I wanted to share with you something that you taught me many many months ago.
Bashar
Something that you taught yourself.
Asker
Okay. Someone had asked you how you communicated and you said that it was through vibrations. Your mental telepathic understanding was through vibration in a sense.
Bashar
Yes.
Asker
And I left here and several months went by and a very dear friend of mine that also comes here, her mother was very sick with Alzheimer’s disease and no one could talk to her because she made no sense at all. And I started to communicate with her for three and four hours at a time and have conversation after conversation while people sat in the room laughing because they couldn’t believe that we understood each other. And I finally understood that she wanted to pass on and go to the other side. And I helped her and her daughter to communicate through those last few weeks that they were here and she had something she wanted to teach her daughter and I helped them to communicate as well as myself with her and shortly after that she died and it was a wonderful awakening for all of us to be able to communicate with her on that level.
Bashar
Thank you. Thank you for having made a difference. One individual makes a difference in the total consciousness. Thank you.
Asker
For sure.
Asker
A lady I was involved with a while back as ago was was involved with was on another level continues.
Bashar
Ah thank you.
Asker
She was involved in a very bad automobile accident about a month ago. Memorial Day is from what I understand. She’s been in the hospital for a month. She’ll probably be there for a lot longer.
Bashar
Probably. Here we go with probabilities again. Probably. Is that what you perceive to be her reality? Is that what you are saying?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
All right.
Asker
She was supposed to get married a couple days I think after that happened. Obviously that hasn’t happened. I have visited the hospital twice. All right. We’ve spent a great deal of time together. She comes and goes, but she knew who I was. Actually, we spent about eight hours together on the two. The total for the two walked over the phone. The family I met her folks for the first time. They don’t know me. Because of the impending marriage, they’re very uncomfortable when I’m there. I’ve talked with her fiance several times and he is exceptionally uncomfortable.
Bashar
Continue.
Asker
He has asked me not to come back, not to contact her. I’m part of me feels as though I’m abandoning her if I don’t contact her. At least to allow her to know what’s happening.
Bashar
Does a part of you feel like you’re abandoning yourself if you don’t?
Asker
Yes. Yes. I’m torn between going back and not going back and not worrying about hassling with it and everybody else. I mean, the family’s had enough with everything that’s happened. God knows I’ve had enough happen in the past. No one wants any hassles, but there’s this other feeling. She’s happy when she sees me. All right. I know she enjoys that now. I really don’t know what to do. I’m really torn about it. Can you would you comment on it?
Bashar
Well, simply you can recognize first and foremost that you are no matter what the definition of your physical proximity always interacting always. Now if you find that the idea of the physical proximity attracts a creation on your parts of the idea of displeasure from others, it may simply be the idea that you can know you are interacting anyway and not necessarily choose to continue to create the idea of dissension from them. But in this way also do recognize it may be an opportunity for you to recognize that if you both wish to continue to co-create the idea of the interaction in the manner that you most enjoy, then in that sense it does not matter what they think. Does she enjoy it?
Asker
Yes. To my knowledge she does.
Bashar
And do you?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
Then what does anyone else have to say about it?
Asker
I that has been my thought process for a long time. But I the other part of me that plays the devil’s advocate as the devil’s advocate. Well, I’m trying to be fair about situation.
Bashar
Why do you have to try to be fair? Why do you not know that you are a fair being that you are functioning within integrity? So what has that got to do with what he knows to be true for himself? Do you know you are a fair being?
Asker
Oh yes.
Bashar
Do you know you are functioning within integrity?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
Then why not allow yourself to simply understand that once again you can know that there is an interaction going on right now no matter what your physical proximity and you can be just as powerful being not physically present as you can be physically present. And at the same time you can recognize that if that individual wishes to co-create with you physical proximity and you wish to co-create that with her, then it is your opportunity in this way to do so. If that is what excites you the most, if that is what excites her the most, if you are functioning within integrity with each other in that way. And also simply recognize that both of you together may be allowing all those others who are giving you all of the judgment to come to some terms about themselves by seeing something reflected in the two of you. For what reason should they judge you? Perhaps you can be a reflection for them to come to terms and cease judging themselves.
Asker
Is that possible without the situation really taking off and blowing up and escalating into something it shouldn’t be?
Bashar
It is possible. Yes. But again, recognize that if you simply know what is true for you, even if it quote unquote does go that way, you will never feel it. But again do recognize that you are able to do anything you want from anywhere and anywhere. So again it is up to you and if you feel that within your integrity and your conscious choice that you would prefer in this way to simply know you are interacting with her as you need to no matter where you are, then physical proximity is not necessarily something you have to insist upon. But then again, it is up to you to feel out the situation for yourself and simply function through the integrity you know you are utilizing.
Seeing the situation from your vantage point right now, do not necessarily assume that I have a greater vantage point than you do, for it is your personal life. And it is not always the case that ideas are more apparent to us than they are to you. And right now, such is the case. There is nothing that I have an overview of that you are not privy to. Since you are dealing with such an intensification of focus of the energy, you are very well aware of all the factors involved. As many as I am, as many as I allow myself to be aware of based upon the idea of not interfering with your choices. Thus, it is totally in your hands.
Asker
Overview notwithstanding, if you were in my situation, if—
Bashar
what parallel reality are we talking about? That if has nothing to do with what is. What is—
Asker
that’s correct. But you’ve said you’ve just said that you see the same things I see. No more, no less. Guys, knowing that, what would you feel would be the best possible choice at this time?
Bashar
All right. All right. All right. One hint and that is it.
Asker
All right. Yes. No. Maybe an in-depth one hint of my definition. One. All right. All right. Take it or leave it. In that case, I’ll take it.
Bashar
I would. I would. Oh, this is fun. I would if I were in your shoes which would not fit me very well. I would open complete and total communication with everyone as to why they feel the way they choose to feel. I would talk with everyone and explore in depth what everyone is choosing to feel and why they think they are feeling what they are feeling so that I can function with my integrity and integrate the entire interaction within me by talking to every portion of the interaction.
Asker
If you’re aware of the situation as I am, you know that I have attempted that.
Bashar
Attempted?
Asker
Well, you know that I have done that with at least one of the individuals involved.
Bashar
At least one. I said everyone. Who knows what talking to one will do for another?
Asker
Before me. Yes, you do not sound too happy.
Bashar
Do you think it will be a great deal of trouble to talk to all of—
Asker
It’s not so much that I think it will be a great deal of trouble. It’s the idea that I can reasonably project—
Bashar
[Laughter] stopping before you start. Are you planning the outcome in advance?
Asker
The outcome that I was thinking about was certainly one of the options of an outcome.
Bashar
Well, yes, but you do not have to prefer it, do you? You do not have to act like that is the most expected outcome that could happen, do you?
Asker
That’s correct. Where is your faith?
Bashar
By my mind comes and goes. Where does it go? There is nowhere for it to go to. Where does it come from?
Asker
You your opening statements this evening, you were talking about habits. Yes. Yes. I mean I saw I suppose a lot of parallels with that in this situation. I see but I can’t for the life of me for the life understand in this particular situation yes it’s why I would agree to— I shouldn’t say that— why I would co-create an additional negative situation on top of a negative situation that’s already taken place.
Bashar
But why are you defining what has taken place as a negative situation and why are you defining everything else that occurs from that point forward as additional negativity if you are functioning within a positive vibration? How can anything that you are associated with in that way and interacting with have anything but a positive reason for its creation?
Asker
That’s fine for someone to see on another level, but that’s fine for another level.
Bashar
As if it was not all one level. Again, the habit of separation.
Asker
Oh yes, I understand it intellectually, but emotionally I choose to make a difference that there is an intellectual and an emotional understanding and therefore I refuse to blend the two and therefore I refuse to understand it.
Bashar
What makes you think there is another level? Oh god, there is only another level to understand it upon when you create another level to understand it upon. Do not forget unconscious knowingness is the same thing as conscious unknowingness which is saying you consciously choose to not know and relegate it to your unconscious self which does know. But it is all one thing. It is all one consciousness. There is no other level. Only the illusion that there is. Now if you wish to understand then simply once again allow yourself to understand that every. Now if I were to suggest to you that you would underline the word every as many times as you could. How many times do you think you would underline it before you would get tired? Until you would understand that I mean every when I say every. All right. How many times could you underline it? All right. That many times underlying the word every to understand that when I say every I mean every. Every situation is fundamentally neutral until you give it meaning positive or negative. No situation has built-in meaning. No circumstances, no scenario is inherently negative or positive. It just is until you decide to choose how you wish to look at it. Then looking at it as a positive idea creates a positive cognition and a positive effect in your reality as you relate and interact with that situation. Choosing to think that it is a negative situation to begin with creates for you more reinforcement of negative experience because then that is all you allow yourself to see in a fundamentally neutral situation is the negative side.
Asker
Based upon what you’ve said, I find a grave contradiction. All right. When I first approached the situation, there wasn’t a thought in my mind that the situation was negative. I was not looking at the accident as a negative situation.
Bashar
What has then got to do with now? Again, understand no matter who you used to be when you first approached it, you obviously the moment you chose to experience negativity chose to be someone else to whom it was possible to have a negative experience. What happened? Why did you choose to become someone who would only experience the idea in a negative way rather than the continuance of the positive idea? You have two individuals that are experiencing a situation from a positive stance no matter what it is. And you have another individual or additional individuals enter the same situation.
Bashar
You still have the two that are looking at it positively. The others are not looking at it positively. But that is their reality. It does not have to be yours. Why should you be attached judgmentally to the way they choose to look at the situation? Why should that change your positive outlook?
Asker
Well, all right. Let me see if I can answer that. It does not change my positive outlook with regard to the accident itself. Uhuh.
Bashar
You are making a differentiation.
Asker
Yes, because there is a differentiation.
Bashar
You are making a differentiation. There is no differentiation until you make one. If you are completely the idea, this interaction completely positively, then no matter how many other individuals appear within it that choose to be negative, you will still love them the same. You will still feel that they are there for a positive reason. You will not allow yourself to create an effect of negativity in your life with regard to anything in that situation. Anything because their reality is not yours. Just because they are interacting with you does not mean that for you they are not there for a positive reason. Maybe for them you are there for a negative reason or a positive reason or for themselves they are there for a negative reason or a positive reason. But the idea for you no matter who or what they are can still be positive. You could for example say well now here we are interacting in this relationship. We are having a positively good time. Here comes someone to interact with us. They are choosing to be negative. What a wonderful opportunity for their negativity may allow us to choose to continue to prefer our positive reality and let us know we are just as strong and can be even more strengthened because we have a negative reality to look at and know that we don’t prefer it. So that negativity may be exactly what you, my friend, in your state, need to strengthen yourself according to what you believe in. So you can stand up for yourself so that you can then truly physically stand up.
Bashar
Use your imagination and trust.
Asker
Listening to him talk, it sounds like the judgment of negativity came when it didn’t feel good.
Bashar
Your emotions are the result of what you already believe to be true. You follow me.
Asker
I was wondering if I had had it backwards.
Asker
Comment. This is just my—
Bashar
All right. Your reality of the situation.
Asker
My reality. Yes. Your what? Go ahead. Keith was feeling since he’s you know vulnerable how you say that and he’s very strong how you interpret.
Bashar
Yes. Vulnerability is infinite strength.
Asker
Yes. To me that makes a lot of sense. That he feels the negative effect of the parents and he feels this and he doesn’t want to create for them a painful experience.
Bashar
But again understand the idea is that if you know you are functioning within your integrity and you are fulfilling all of your end of the idea in terms of what you feel to be true for you, then the idea of feeling someone else’s negativity is creating it for yourself. If you simply recognize they are choosing to be negative, then you can assist them by giving them a positive reflection that will then allow them to see in you a reflected opportunity to also become positive if they decide to. If you know what you are and who you are and find yourself in a situation with other negative individuals in that way around you, then simply recognize that if you know you are functioning within your integrity, then perhaps you are there for the purpose of reflecting some positivity to them. Perhaps they need you more than they are willing to admit.
Asker
Bishar, I’ll find you. I understand that and it makes a lot of sense to me. And there’s also this reality that we’ve all been conditioned with to not make waves for other people.
Bashar
All right. Again, we are not saying that you should intentionally force yourself on anyone. That is why we also say that you can recognize that you are having an interaction regardless of whether you are physically in contact with that individual or not. However, if you also understand that in your terms there really is no harm truly being perpetuated maliciously by you by being physically in contact with that individual, then all of the ideas that are being told to you by these negative individuals, it is their choice to feel that way and you are not responsible for that.
Asker
Even not being responsible for that though and listening to everything you’ve said. Yes. I know that a negative and I’m using that word again. Another negative situation on top of all the other crap that’s happened is being—
Bashar
but whose negative situation? So it’s theirs. They are choosing it. What do you have to do with its creation? It is their creation. You are responsible to them to be yourself. You are not responsible for them or their choices. Now do you— again change. Oh another habit saying it is a big habit to change. Habit built upon habit built upon conditioning built upon habit built upon that’s the way it always has been built upon another belief another scenario another creation. Third density that is no excuse telling you where we’re coming from.
Asker
We as a civilization I am laughing with you at your wonderful joke. Yes, I know. Oh, thank you.
Bashar
You may all take a short break.
Asker
All right, I’ll say sharing. Bashar, my friend Sydney and I were out by the pool and we were discussing the difference between emotion and intuition and we were sharing with each other what our realities were on that. Right. And I sort of felt for me that my emotion and my intuition were the same thing and I was wondering if you could sort of comment on that as far as if there is a distinction.
Bashar
There is in a sense a distinction since you have made one in that way. There is a differentiation but recognize in this sense the idea of intuition is more the idea of knowingness whereas emotion— energy motion— is one of the three parts of the artificial construct you call your personality that you have created to remind you that you do in fact know what you know. So emotion is more a reflection of intuition expressed through the personality. Although everything is of course one and the same thing in different manifestations of itself. But in this way the differentiation is simply that intuition is simply knowing, recognizing or being cognizant of the relationship of you and the thing you are interacting with. Emotion is emotion— energy motion. It is more an activation idea. It is the recognition of the intuition in action. In that sense, it is more the idea of giving yourself a barometer by which you can then see or feel within yourself the reflection of your degree of acknowledgment of your knowingness. You follow?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
Can you give some sort of assistance regarding how to work out if you are letting your emotions hang you up?
Bashar
Emotions do not hang you up. Judgments hang you up. There is no such thing as once again an intrinsically negative emotion. Judgment creates the polarity that you experience as a seemingly negative emotion. The emotions themselves do not hang you up. They are simply put once again emotion— energy in motion.
Asker
Are you sure?
Bashar
One moment. You follow?
Asker
Yeah, I do. So, in releasing yourself from judgment and judging situations, if that is such a habit for people to judge things, it is a belief that it is a habit. Okay. Can you give assistance on releasing judgment?
Bashar
There are many ways we have reflected and assisted with this idea. Different individuals will experience different portions of this reflection according to what they feel they need to understand the idea. Now you can put it on this level very simple understanding if you wish. The idea is to recognize what you prefer and what you do not. But what you do not prefer does not have to be invalidated as something less than what you do prefer. You follow me?
Asker
Mhm.
Bashar
Therefore, to simply recognize what you prefer and act that way allows you to experience your preference. Judging what you do not prefer creates you to be the vibration of judgment, the vibration of what you are judging. You form through your judgment an attachment to what you don’t prefer. So why would you want to judge if the idea is to become something else? Judging is what keeps you focused on what you don’t prefer. You follow it?
Asker
Yes, I do. So, why would you want to do bad?
Asker
Don’t for when we look at a situation and we view it as being perfect and we have this phrase of “oh that’s perfect.” Nice. Is that a judgment?
Bashar
It is a recognition. The idea is that everything is perfect. Everything. The idea that you need to achieve perfection is a judgment because you’re saying that you are not already everything that you can be to express the idea you are being at that given moment. You are always perfect always. You will never achieve perfection. You are perfect now. You are always a perfect manifestation of the idea you are being. If you are being another idea later on, then you are simply being another perfectly manifested different idea, not a better one, a different one. Perfect on its own terms unto itself. Just as perfect as any other idea you have ever been or will ever be, but different.
Asker
So perfect is just a word, a label that we put on something for just existing as it is.
Bashar
Yes. Thank you. Full cognition of what something is is the cognition of its perfection.
Asker
Okay. And we have brought about the distinction of whether it’s perfect and not perfect as being a judgment of being good or bad.
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